Plan ahead. Go for the long walks you’ve always dreamed of. Set off for a road trip. Travel with him. It is with the new things that you do together that bring you much closer. A man’s heart is through his stomach. If you can’t eat at home, bring it with you. Bring packed lunch. Decorate your food, create shapes. That way, your trip is still personalized as you can get. And when you get tired, read your happy birthday poems for your boyfriend. Settle and cuddle under a tree while reading.
Other things to do with your boyfriend? Create your own sweet ideas for boyfriends and try to make them happen. Discover what is left to unearth. Talk about your future and share dreams. Laugh your fears away. Write your own bucket list and follow through by ticking one number off from the list together. Of course it devalues as the perfect boyfriend gift if you go skulking if he wants to tick off skydiving. Master your fear and Live. Remember, Paul Velery once said, “Love is being stupid together.”
Build a time capsule. On his birthday, write down things, your memories, letters for each other, and open them after a few years. Gives you something to look forward to in the future.
A perfect boyfriend gift can be something intangible. It may not be always concrete. As long as you are with him, the good and the bad times, every day is perfect.
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